Finding that Birth Center

I think that the comfort of having a birth at home for me is related to my living situation.  Right now, we have two wonderful roommates, there is not any real space to give birth, and everything is carpeted in the house.  I'm due in October, and we're planning to buy a house in July, so who knows what the situation will be then.  I've talked about why we don't want to use a hospital.  So, we were on a mission to find a nice birth center and a midwife with s similar philosophy to us about health.

When we started searching for birth centers in our area, we only came up with one.  There were certified nurse-midwives that worked there, and we discovered as we went along that we wanted to opt for a certified professional midwife instead to further remove ourselves from a conventional birth.  We didn't make an appointment with any midwife yet, because I was waiting to hear which place Sean recommended, as he's done way more research about childbirth than I have.  There was some spotting, so I started to freak out and just made an appointment with the certifed nurse-midwife that my pregnant coworker recommended just to make sure everything was all right.  After that experience, I was determined to find the right birth center, so I searched again.  Up popped  a new place that looked pretty fancy, so I scheduled us to attend the next open house.

The open house at the birth center went well. We sat in a circle in the cozy waiting room, shared our introductions, and then asked questions about having a baby at the birth center with the midwives. One of the women was having her fourth child, but this was the first child for everyone else.  Two of the men were doing their due diligence to the process by coming with a list of questions.  One of those gentlemen printed a list of questions off of the internet that was touted as good practice to ask prospective midwives. I had seen many of those question lists while researching midwives.  The other questioning gentleman was affixed on numbers and percentages of complications, deaths, and transfers to the hospital.

As long as we were in an environment with knowledgeable and experienced professionals where we had little interference from those who would push conventional medicine practices on us, we knew that we would make a fine choice. So, we were sure that we would have no problem at this birth center. We still had a few questions, but they were answered without us having to ask.  One of the midwives was originally a nurse that helped deliver babies at a hospital.  She said that she didn't want to work as a certified nurse-midwife in Virginia, because they are required to have a doctor back up and do tend to rely on conventional practices more so than certified professional midwives.  CNM's and CPM's do go through the same midwifery training.  That same midwife is also trained as a naturopathic doctor.  Before Sean could ask how they felt about hypnobirthing techniques, since we plan to use Hypnobabies, I pointed out that there were hypnobirthing pamphlets on one of the tables.  Score.  And, to put icing on the cake, the other midwife was drinking out of a glass VOSS water bottle just like we do.  This all said to us that it was very likely we shared many of the same philosophies about health.

The birth rooms there are nicer than any room in our house. Each has an electric fireplace, a birth tub, and their own private bathrooms with showers.  The use of the birth tub can be a last moment decision, as laboring moms are often guided to the right position by their bodies.

The only downside is that neither Sean's nor my insurance covers the birth center.  The total fee will be  $3,400 if we pay by cash or check before my 28th week.  So, we've made an appointment for the first week in April.